Killing Sacred Cows Blog

By Chris Miles  

This is an essay I recently wrote about independence which I feel pertains to our discussion of overcoming myths and becoming financially free.

Could independence be no more than freedom from oppression and domination? Conversely, is independence merely unobstructed freedom to do anything we desire with no fear of intentional or unintentional consequences? Absolutely not! The more freedom we expect, the more responsibility we inescapably accept.

Today, we see a pandemic paradigm governing humans to blame anyone when things go awry. Thomas Jefferson proclaimed, "Timid men prefer the calm of despotism to the tempestuous sea of liberty." Why do we shrilly scream for independence and utter whining whispers at the first sight of responsibility?

To many, independence means to be "in dependence." They fancy others slavishly sowing so they can slothfully reap. They "fight" for freedom, but ultimately, beg for bondage. They want what has never existed - freedom from consequence. Indisputable independence is the freedom to pioneer one's path and be accountable for the destination.

My challenge is to consider what areas of our life and finances are we not taking on responsibility. Are we blaming market events, investors, financial institutions, oil companies, politicians, etc for our problems rather than creating solutions? Why can we see so clearly others' errors which are somtimes trivial and are so blind to our own destructive faults? What possibilities would arise if we focused the energy we waste complaining and repeatedly pointing out others' mistakes towards production and creating greater happiness and financial freedom through discovering soul purpose? What blessings are we failing to see because we focus more time and energy on the lack thereof? I challenge each of us to objectively ponder these questions, journal our responses, and identify ways to further focus on our financial independence.